Hello Jason
Thank you for taking the time to respond.
After reading your article once again and your response to my comments, I realize that I was reading and quickly forming conclusions, instead of as you say reading (or listening) without evaluation, or more elegantly, separating stimulus from response.
Yes, that is going to be difficult - it will require undoing years of my way of thinking but it will certainly be an interesting, mentally challenging exercise - will let you know how I make out.
Thanks again for patiently setting me out on the right path.
Have a nice weekend - the weather is awesome in Toronto
Savio